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 Post subject: Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2003 5:33 am 
i acutally used to get made fun of by other girls and stuff because i wouldn't talk about guys' appearances at all. _________________ xoxo, kris |
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Post subject: Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2003 5:53 am
hey kris same here...i wont talk about girls appearance w/ friends either. its just something.........i dont do. |
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Post subject: Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2003 11:29 am
i really don't get the point. _________________ xoxo, kris |
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Joined: 05 Nov 2002 | Posts: 2107 | Location: Greenville, Texas
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Post subject: Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2003 1:59 pm
And I don't think it is a big deal to say someone is attractive 
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Post subject: Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2003 2:03 pm
maybe not... unless you're making it seem like she is more attractive than your significant other (which you probably did, from a girl's perspective). _________________ xoxo, kris |
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Post subject: Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2003 2:06 pm
No I didn't do that. We talked about the show, and I said they were attractive. The same way a girl will say such and such actor is cute etc. It was no more then that. God knows I love my girlfriend and I tell her that. So she should know it. |
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Post subject: Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2003 2:19 pm
oh ok... i was just assuming. so sorry. (: _________________ xoxo, kris |
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Post subject: Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2003 2:26 pm
It is ok kris  No hard feelings. The original post like I have said before was just a little amusing thing. Now she will just joke to me about it, like I joke to her about Liam Gallagher (yes she loves liam gallagher  ).
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Post subject: Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2003 2:48 pm
Ok, wait man, I think it can be cleared up a bit for you (maybe). Cute refers to just appearances, mostly, when used offhandedly like we are liable to do. ("The cat is cute.") ("The photo is cute.") ("The actor is cute.") When you say attractive, that can imply more than just a shallow appreciation, ya know? |
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Post subject: Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2003 3:23 pm
what about deep appreciation? or fondness even? (hypothetical, of course) _________________ rest in my arms sleep in my bed theres a design to what i did and said piccysssssss |
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Post subject: Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2003 8:58 am
Bah, I see little difference between using "cute" and "attractive" (other than the fact that girls/women way overuse "cute" - i.e. today a female co-worker asked me if I thought the centerpieces she made for graduation tomorrow were "cute". They're just IUPUI cups with tissue paper and some party favor stuff inside. It's a CUP! Probably just a female thing. I told her "I'm a guy, I don't find stuff like that "cute". And she laughed.) But I'm really digressing.. it's a fact, there is probably more than one person in the world that any guy or girl will find attractive (speaking strictly outward appearance). Hopefully one's boy/girlfriend is with them for more than just that outward appearance, so to state that someone is "attractive" shouldn't make them feel threatened. Make sense? I'm not saying it should be mentioned every time, but eh, it's not a big deal if it's mentioned (in my opinion). That's just me. Anyway, I've never been one to really discuss with other guys the appearance of girls, either. But that's probably because it takes a lot more than just appearance for me to be interested romantically. _________________ "The revolution starts today, not tomorrow." :: got g-Love? |
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Post subject: Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2003 10:27 am
I agree with you gregor. There are many girls that are atractive, but that doesn't equal love and a good relationship.. so I don't really find it a big deal that a person might find more than just the one person they are "in love" with attractive. _________________ are you a member of the slaves to their members? |
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Joined: 05 Nov 2002 | Posts: 661 | Location: burlville
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Post subject: Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2003 11:01 am
gRegor wrote: Bah, I see little difference between using "cute" and "attractive" (other than the fact that girls/women way overuse "cute" - i.e. today a female co-worker asked me if I thought the centerpieces she made for graduation tomorrow were "cute". They're just IUPUI cups with tissue paper and some party favor stuff inside. It's a CUP! Probably just a female thing. I told her "I'm a guy, I don't find stuff like that "cute". And she laughed.)
But I'm really digressing.. it's a fact, there is probably more than one person in the world that any guy or girl will find attractive (speaking strictly outward appearance). Hopefully one's boy/girlfriend is with them for more than just that outward appearance, so to state that someone is "attractive" shouldn't make them feel threatened. Make sense? I'm not saying it should be mentioned every time, but eh, it's not a big deal if it's mentioned (in my opinion). That's just me. Anyway, I've never been one to really discuss with other guys the appearance of girls, either. But that's probably because it takes a lot more than just appearance for me to be interested romantically. You said everything I wanted to say in that post. |
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Post subject: Posted: Thu Jun 19, 2003 4:21 am
[SMOTE] uh anyway... i think you guys are probably right, but i do see a small amount of danger in that... girls like to feel attractive, and they like it even more when their significant other tells them so. so don't forget to let them know that you think they're attractive. coz that's important. otherwise... jealousy. dun dun dunnnnnn. ok. i'm rambling and i have NO idea what i was trying to say. laughed... hehehe. _________________ xoxo, kris |
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Post subject: Posted: Thu Jun 19, 2003 5:02 am
you are totally right kris. There is only one way to explain this phenomenon; it is simply due to the fact that girls truely are evil.. as was stated by others and later prooven by me through math.. it's impossible to deny it.. _________________ "strength is just an accident arising from the weakness of others." ~Joseph Conrad --------------- 
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