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well what would you do?

Dump her

70%

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Stay w/ her

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just ignore her

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get her to dump you

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plicka527
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Post subject: HELP!!! what would you do?
Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2005 3:04 am

im dating a girl and she is madly in love with me but i dont fell the same

HELP ME PLEASE
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Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2005 3:10 am

i'm in the same situation except i'm the one who's in love.... it sucks a lot...i'd say stay with her
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Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2005 3:44 am

don't lead her on. that shatters hearts. dumping her will only break it.

please don't lead her on, that kills

i would know
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Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2005 4:13 am

don't lead her on.

don't dump her.

change the relationship so that it works out between the two of you.
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Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2005 4:20 am

i disagree.... get rid of her because until u do, u are totally leading her on and well..... dont lead woman on or you will get emails full of death threats and thousand of obscenities.... and than you feel like a total creep about it for a long time...... so get rid of her and make the damage minimal.
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Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2005 5:53 am

I don't think anyone is fit to give any advice on this situation because we know so little about it. Have you told the girl you don't feel that way about her? Does she still insist on dating you even though she knows this? Have you made it absolutely clear and communicated it in a gentle, respectful way?

Dumping her and not explaining why is not going to fix anything. If you haven't already, you need to tell her how you feel immediately. There's literally no other advice I can give without knowing more.
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Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2005 6:51 am

Saellys wrote:

I don't think anyone is fit to give any advice on this situation because we know so little about it.

That's very true.
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room_noises
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Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2005 7:17 am

i think you should explain to her exactly how you feel. i did that...with my friends mom...tehehe.
I wanted to tell her exactly how i felt about her. and after you do you'll feel good about what you did...hopefully.
that's just not the same though...i'd stay with her.
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Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2005 8:13 am

emma m saves the day wrote:

don't lead her on. that shatters hearts. dumping her will only break it.

please don't lead her on, that kills

i would know

Yes. Don't allow her to think you're interested if you're not. It's just not nice.

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Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2005 9:21 am

It's better to end it now than to just continue to let her love you when you don't. You need to be honest when you end it, because you'll feel worse if you don't. She'll probably try to tell you that she doesn't care if you don't love her back, but she does. Don't try to do things to get her to stop loving you, because it won't work... if nothing else it will make things harder for both of you and maybe even make the split more devastating for her. I've been through something similar to this and I made all of the mistakes I'm telling you to avoid now. End it before you both get hurt further.

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Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2005 9:35 am

I'm with Robbie on this one. Just bring it up and be honest.
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Posted: Tue Sep 06, 2005 2:24 am

thanks and no i haven't told her anything yet i dont want to hurt her shes like my closest friend but... the whole dating thing isnt working it just doesnt feel right ive given it time but still it doesnt seem right if you guys can help me at all just w/ some advice of some thing do it
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Posted: Tue Sep 06, 2005 2:44 am

emma m saves the day wrote:

don't lead her on. that shatters hearts.

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Posted: Tue Sep 06, 2005 5:34 am

Being lead on is the WORST! Don't do it.

With that said, there are some questions I have before I can truly answer. How long have you been together? How old are you two? How do you know she's madly in love with you? How do you know you're not madly in love with her?
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Posted: Tue Sep 06, 2005 7:20 am

Don't do something to make her hate you and dump you... don't stay with her... don't ignore her.

What you should do is talk to her. If she feels a certain way towards you and you don't feel the same, you should not stay with her because that would be leading her on. If you do something to make her hate you, then other girls might see this. Other girls might mean future girls. If you ignore her, it would hurt her and leave her wondering why... plus, it also adds to the being an a$$hole thing. SO, you should talk to her. Take her somewhere nice and just explain yourself. Let her know that you mean well, but it's just not working out.

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